Spotlight
I've recently had the awkward pleasure of watching my daughter unwrap her birthday presents via the magic of a Facebook portal. It's really like having her in the room with us, even though she is hundreds of miles away. It reminded me of how she hates being watched while she opens her presents. This is another one for you, Jen. My daughter isn't good at accepting compliments: She demurs, confused, embarrassed at being praised Brushing them off quickly, wishing only to step out of the limelight. It's the same story with opening presents: She hesitates, prevaricates, distracts the giver with aimless chat, Wanting the surprise to be over, normality to resume. I could blame my parents, who every Christmas, Would sit us in a circle in their front room Making each of us open our presents in turn While everyone's eyes were on us, waiting for the response: Did we like it, were we happy, was it a good choice? We were the sta...